ALONE

Word itself has lot of meaning. People like me who is more of introvert ,like this term a lot.

But why the word ALONE has become so much important nowadays.

We humans are social animals that love to interact, grow, exchange ideas and understand each other at the times where we don’t see any hope.

But still being ALONE nowadays has become trend. Social media promote this word without any conscience.

HUSTLE ALONE , NEVER SHARE YOUR SUCCESS, LONE WOLF. ps even wolf need a pack .

I don’t think this is the right way to understand the word itself. Many scholars , spiritual leaders, scientist, entrepreneur have gain immense insight and knowledge while being alone .

But executing thoughts and spreading the knowledge require cooperation.

HUMAN can’t live alone, they require communication and touch of other creatures.

Even people who says that i like to be alone have some pets or have social media to engage them regularly.

Sometime people interpret SELF LOVE attitude as he or she like being ALONE.

I THINK IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND UNDERSTAND YOURSELF , IT CAN HELP YOU ATTAIN THE MIX OF BOTH OF BEING SOCIAL AND ALONE .

WORD ALONE ITSELF IS VERY CONTRADICTORY. JUST GIVE IT A THOUGHT.

I’m writing the blog after long time ,sorry for that. From now on I will try to write one piece every month.

RELATIONSHIP

when you start your life as a child it was more simple becuase then the most important relationship is your mother and father , which is quite simple they give you food, shelter and toys to play with and you give them calmness and happiness. But as our age start climbing numbers ,these relationship get complex or i say priorities start shifting back n forth .

Relationship get complex over time and we make it complex and same for the other party or person who is in the relationship ,it cn be a friend or a life partner .

IS IT LIFE REALLY THAT COMPLEX OR WE MAKE IT COMPLEX.

GETTING STUCK

Sometime it happen that we get stuck at some point ,we feel like we are not moving at all but world around us is moving faster, some time we get slow . We get irritated out of this, we usually get angry and try to spin out from our daily rhythm.

But usually we forget that being stuck can also mean that you are focusing on something important and will take time ,realizing the weakness and working upon it . It is rare.

Getting stuck is not a problem ,but using that time more efficiently and coming out of it successfully that counts a lot.

SAYING NO!!!

Saying No!!! ,seem quite simple you say no to someone when you do not want to do something. But sometimes we get stuck in the situations where saying NO can break your relationship or hurt close ones it can be friend or family and even destroy your career if it is your Boss you are saying NO.

But the important part is that ,why you want to say NO to someone , if you feel like that you will remain unhappy or stressed if you say YES rather saying NO ,then you definitely check your priorities .

Here in this condition you are the one who has to live with your decisions ,just a simple NO can save you from hurting yourself. I know its difficult but once you said it you will feel relief.

life in a hurry

are we going to fast or to slow ,who is there to decide .

Usually these things look common but if we go slow and take care of everyone around us and try help the community and be generous to everyone some people can take advantage of us.

but if we go to fast , people say he is unemotional or do not care about anyone else

did you figured it out whether want to go SLOW or FAST ?????

WHAT I FEAR THE MOST

When the coronavirus started spreading, there was panic ,unemployment even after all the misery that was spreading ,one thing that everyone seeing was the countless deaths that started because of this virus.

For me i started questioning myself, that what we fear most the life or death. the agonies we are getting because we are alive or the eternal slumber which will be there on the corner.

I do not fear death itself , usually I say this to myself that i have seen and live a lot but sometimes I fear ,I only fear about that last breath and that moment what if I fall in love with that last moment and then I do not want to leave this world.

CLOSURE

Every human bieng in this world want something to live on , it can be a reason small as a wish to travel somewhere or to live thier dreams. Both of thing gives them closure. I believe people get closure in thier life out of two things

first, KNOWN ,these are things like science , logic, scenic beauty and success . things that we can percieve and held into our hands , and are satisfied with.

second , UNKNOWN like religion and gods which also do the same things to them.

but the important is that both the parties are getting closure out of it.

AROUND YOU..

so people around us, they sometimes behave weirdly,i don’t know because of the “SOCIETY” which I will talk in later blogs or something else. for example our friends and family is our biggest supporter but sometimes they leave us in our most important and hard times, maybe if listen their side of explanation maybe they are right, but they have also understood that sometimes they have to think illogical also and have to give unconditional support to each other rather than thinking about “SOCIETY”.
THIS IS MY THOUGHT – SOMETIMES WE NEED UNCONDITIONAL SUPPORT.

STRONG FRIEND!!!

So being an adult, you get to know how many different shades of friendships are there and every shade is different from one another but has its own unique characteristics. So even my life there is a friend who is different but yet unique. so he is my roommate so he is one of the strongest friend I found in my entire life who has attitude to withstand any criticism and don’t bother about haters and people who want to bring him down. so I really learned from my this friend. Friendship is not just about hanging out together and having a drink. is about cherishing that what you have accomplished in your friendship as together.

Life ……

Bieng a beginner I’m not looking forward to have thousand of views or comments i just want to share things that people might be going through ,it was same with me and i want to share some stories with you which explain that there are certain hardships that everyone go through wether he or she is rich or poor .

Hardships don’t see status or money